How Appropriate
My god but the weather is and has been amazing. Went to Calistoga with Rover yesterday afternoon and it was absolutely hot out. We had a great time. I didn't think he'd get into it, because he's not exactly the foofy type, but he ended up enjoying himself more than even he thought he would.
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Getting the house ready for Mom today. So much to do. I have to mow the lawn and clean the house. That and I have some errands to run, too. I should exercise, but there just isn't time. At least I don't have to be at the law office until after 12:00 on Monday. That will give me a little more time to neaten things up.
Guess I'd better hop to it.
Life is good. Love these pills. Wish sex were better tho. Oh well.
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Ya know, in the course of life, sex ain't important. I was celebate (by choice) for 6 years. Good years!! Sex gets in the way of so much. It gets in the way of truly knowing someone, it gets in the way of enjoying just being with someone, it can overshadow a truly loving relationship. When it is good it is great & I like it alot, but I have learned not to use it as a barometer for anything in my life. I find I enjoy men, life, & experiences so much more when sex is not first & foremost on my mind. I like holding hands, snuggling, hugs & kisses without it leading to anything else. Took me a long time to come to this, but I figured out that most of the problems in my life came from three things: (1) alcohol, (2) drugs, & (3) sex. When I gave all of them up, my life improved...& I become more content, more of a fully developed person with a deeper appreciation of friendships...& relationships. Every bad decision I made in the past was rooted in 1 or all 3 of the above. So, even in a committed relationship (I gave up one night stands & casual sex 20 years ago), sex is not the "tie that binds" it is simply a nice byproduct of a loving relationship. In fact, I was in a long-term relationship where we never had sex (in any form) for the last year. It was not a problem for either of us. We split for other reasons.
So, hang in there. Keep up the good work. Quit worrying about sex. Maybe you should just give it a rest for awhile-at least until you get all the other stuff figured out.
Take care my dear Morgan!! Have a blessed week-I will be thinking of you.
Blessed be...
Glad to see you're finally feeling better. It's been a long time coming, no?
I'm back up at my site. In a temporary fashion, anyways. I make no promises on content, however.
And hey, don't put down Eeyore ... he's the man ... he's my boy ...
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